parenting

The internet doesn’t raise good kids. You do.

I feel inundated with posts in my Facebook feed and on twitter like this…

“7 ways you suck at parenting”

“Don’t let your kid use electronics until they are 10”

“12 things your kid should know to succeed at life”

STOP IT!

First off…I realize I need to unfollow Huffington Post..they are like the CNN of the internet.

Secondly…lets stop looking to the internet…to social media in particular for approval and justification for everything we do. Please? Just stop. As parents we are all just doing what we know best for our kids. That NEVER looks the same as the next parent. Stop comparing, there are no judgments. I’m starting to think it’s these very articles that are making people think there is all this judgment? Do what you know best for your kids…and when you know better, do better. I truly can not think of a single person I know who sucks at parenting…and yet none of us do it the same.

At 4 years old, my kid watched YouTube videos on his tablet for hours at a time (YES HE HAD A TABLET AT 4 years old!) and guess what? AT 5, he spends HOURS making books about dinosaurs, maps of the world, African animals, and doctor’s instruments.

At 3 years old, my kid watched Thomas the Train videos for hours at a time. And guess what? At 5, he spends hours watching documentaries on Dinosaurs and devouring the globe to learn about every country in the world.

I didn’t wreck him. TV, electronics, not explaining something a particular way, letting your kid do one thing and not another will not wreck him/her. All you need to do is love the crap out of them and respect their individuality to do things their own way.

You are doing fine. Ignore the chatter.

 

2 replies
  1. Cathy
    Cathy says:

    doesn’t your post- yet another article aimed at parents and their parenting decisions, sort of defeat the intent of your message? The fact is, some parents maybe WILL “wreck” their kids with some of the advice they take/do not take. If individuals simply stopped sharing their opinions, yours included, then parents really WOULD have to make their own decisions.

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  2. Brenda
    Brenda says:

    I knew someone would call me out on my doing the exact thing I’m tired of 🙂 I don’t think it’s reasonable to think people should stop sharing their opinions…nor should they. My opinion is that we should stop letting so much of it into our heads…and trust ourselves.

    Thanks for your comment Cathy.

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